一輩子沒說過 我愛你 的人 一輩子沒說過「我愛你」的人 作者﹕高達宏 生活在一個沒有聽過「我愛你」 的環境中，使一個人失去了 說「我愛你」的心靈，緊接著 失去了說「我愛你」的能力。 如果要我選一句最美麗最動人的話， 我會選「我愛你」這三個字。 在我這個年齡的人來說，「我愛你」 這三個字並不是隨意說說的話，因酒店兼職為 這三個字不僅僅是情感上真實的表達， 也是一個認真嚴肅的承諾。 所以當我們說「我愛你」的時候， 絕對不是兒戲。 不過到了現在，「我愛你.」似乎 已經變成了人們的口頭語，說 「我愛你」就像是電視、電影上的 對白一樣的只是一種慣性的「演出」 而已，這是因為人們把「我喜歡你」 當作了「我愛你」，所以才會 如此容易的說酒店經紀出口。 喜歡吃辣的，現在都說成愛吃辣的。 年輕男女看到帥哥美女，見一個 喜歡一個，現在的說法卻是 「見一個愛一個」。 喜歡和愛有層次上的不同， 喜歡不需要有心靈的感動， 愛則是來自於心靈的感動。 喜歡只是在表達一種感受， 愛卻是心底的感情的表示。 父母對兒女的愛遠超過喜歡， 生死相許的男女之愛也超過喜歡。 酒店工作 所以真正的「我愛你」這三個字的 意義是一生之重。 然而在心中有這種感受的時候， 「我愛你」這三個字說起來會有 一種愉悅、輕快的感覺，因為 「愛在心中」這本來就是會這樣。 或許人們不是天天都在說「我愛你」， 但是，偶爾的在男女之間、在父母 兒女之間，說句「我愛你」是自然、 平常而且普遍的事情。 事實上，在我們心酒店打工中有愛的時候， 說句「我愛你」不是一件甚麼大事， 對一般人來說也不是一件困難的事。 然而「我愛你」這三個字對一些人來說， 卻是重逾千鈞，即使心中有愛， 仍然有著無法出口的艱難。 有人當夫妻生活了一輩子，卻一輩子 都沒辦法讓一句「我愛你」從自己的 嘴巴說出來；甚至於有些當父母的， 每天辛勤工作、操勞家務，卻在兒女酒店兼職 成長的歲月中，也從不曾讓一句 「我愛你」從自己的口中說出來。 即使心中有愛，而且是深深的愛， 仍然是無法說這三個字。 為什麼「我愛你」會這句話 對他們會如此的沉重？ 環境使然。 生活在一個沒有聽過「我 愛你」的 環境中，使一個人失去了說 「我愛你」的心靈，緊接著失去了 說「我愛你」的能力。 這是一個實例酒店經紀。 在一個家庭中，有二個男孩， 父親偏愛哥哥，對於弟弟經常責罵 毆打，甚至還曾經將弟弟吊起來打過。 這個當弟弟的，心中充滿著不滿和 憤怒，卻又害怕兇暴的爸爸，於是 性格變得叛逆暴躁，長大結婚後 這個弟弟對待自己的妻子、兒子 就像是他的父親在對待他一樣。 在這樣的環境中， 他這一生如何能得張口說聲「我愛你」？ 酒店工作可憐的是，他的妻子和他共同 生活了一輩子，他沒給她有一天 好日子過，不是沒有飯吃，而是 沒有一天有過好心情。 而他直到他的妻子過世後 才表露出他對妻子念念不忘的相思之情。 然而慢了，他的妻子在死前已經 向娘家說了「最後的遺願」： 不要和他葬在一起。 除了他之外，其他還有許多不同的 環境和境遇也會讓人陷入相同的情況。 酒店打工 有些人變形得成為越是關心越是 嘮叨、粗口，越是給對方壓力， 讓對方更加的痛苦難過。 這些人有些值得同情，有些則 未必須要給予同情，因為他們 已經進入了「任意傷害人無丁點悔意」 的模式，無法回頭了，除了「死」， 沒有人能改變他對別人的繼續傷害。 人生就是這樣，有幸有不幸。 如若一個人自覺「我愛你」這三個酒店兼職字 很難出口，甚至這輩子從未說過 「我愛你」，那麼，他就應該仔細 回想回想，他這輩子是不是聽過 別人向他說「我愛你」這三個字？ 然後想想，自己這一生是不是 就這樣的乾澀下去，直到生命的末了？ 如果我們還能向家人、愛人開口說 聲「我愛你」，那麼我們就應該 感謝上蒼，讓我們在人生的路上 猶有芳香可聞，猶有幸福相隨。 高澎湖民宿達宏詩文集
- May 24 Fri 2013 15:08
一輩子沒說過 我愛你 的人
- Oct 29 Mon 2012 11:35
考選部長賴峰偉為酒後開黃腔道歉
考選部長賴峰偉為酒後開黃腔道歉酒後開黃腔 考選部長賴峰偉道歉 〔2012.02.06∕自由時報∕記者顏若瑾∕台北報導〕摘關鍵字行銷要：馬英九愛將考選部長賴峰偉一月中在考選部尾牙抽獎活動時，當眾開黃腔說出，「要摸我、要摸我，要摸深一點、摸下面租屋網一點」的不雅言詞。賴峰偉昨出面召開記者會，鞠躬道歉表示自己「酒後失言」，太太對此也很不諒解，他以後會少應酬、少個人信貸喝酒、多讀書，拜託大家再給他一次機會。 至於是否有和女性同仁勾手臂喝酒，甚至讓女同仁坐在自己大腿上？賴峰偉說，買屋尾牙那天場面熱絡，加上有喝酒，有些事他已記不太清楚，若他有不當言詞動作，願向大家道歉。 賴說，當時只是要炒熱氣租辦公室氛，但有過就改，不會解讀為惡意中傷，也不會心灰意冷，考選部該做的事，會繼續做。希望外界能再給他一個機會，多關心網路行銷他在部長任內表現，如果外界要渲染成要求他下台，自己也有些不能適應。 買屋網http://www.libertytimes.com.tw/2012/new/feb/6/today-p2.htm 豪哥的話： 奇怪﹐部長是很需要被摸嗎？我真婚禮佈置的搞不懂！這種事跟你老婆在家說就好了﹐在公務機關公開說﹐這是怎樣？人家如果不知道你酒醉﹐還以為員工要摸考選部長信用貸款、要摸深一點、摸下面一點﹐才會抽到大獎咧！這種話如果跟我豪哥一起喝酒的時候說說就算了﹐跟女同事說﹐根本在吃人家信用貸款豆腐嘛！ 不多說了﹐做工去了﹐現在錢難賺﹐顧肚子重要啊！
- Aug 18 Sat 2012 12:11
Pei的美食之旅---961121 霸味薑母鴨
Pei的美食之旅---961121 霸味薑母鴨 冷冷的冬天 當591然要吃可以讓身體瞬間暖呼呼的薑母鴨 感覺冬天沒有吃薑花蓮民宿母鴨 好像就沒有冬天的feeling...=.=|||這是一家不是很酒店經紀起眼的店 Pei經過好多次但是都沒有想進去的衝動 酒店打工直到Pei姐的大力推薦你能夠想像這樣冰凍凍的天氣 一群人關鍵字廣告坐在外面的小板凳 圍著鍋子猛嗑的情景嗎雖然瘋狂 但是 長灘島 就是要這種氣氛!!!!這裡的薑母鴨最大特色就是用炭火熬煮辦公室出租 跟別家的就是不一樣 別有一番風味 而且料賣房子很豐富Pei一家四口吃得飽飽 花不到700元 滿室內裝潢足100%哩~~~ 霸味薑母鴨8691-5242台北縣汐止市新台五路2酒店經紀段60號
- Aug 18 Sat 2012 05:14
耀眼之星∕張靜怡
耀眼之星∕張靜怡贏得2007年第九屆 國際 WCH 賽的台灣豎琴家張靜怡（Jing-I Jang），生於台中縣豐原市，從小學五年級就被基督徒鋼琴老師每週日捉去教會司琴，也每隔兩個禮拜參加教會的兒童主日學，神的帶領就是這麼奇妙，長大後的她學士其間其實主修的是鋼琴，副修豎琴，因為系上沒豎琴學生，因而有機會參與學校的樂團。而在畢業之際，豎琴家解瑄老師百般的為她安排去比賽第五屆美國國際豎琴賽，因而認識台灣人但在美國長大的知名豎琴家兼老師 Ann Yeung （楊郁雯），家中排行老三的她，有兩位姊姊，因為上頭的老姊們鋼琴都學沒多久變放棄，起頭時父母一點都不想讓小女兒學。幸好有姑姑的支持才沒有埋沒這位音樂人才，不過父母後來也都很支持她的星路。熱愛巴哈音樂的她，還會彈古箏。豎琴研究所畢業後的靜怡目前繼續攻讀豎琴博士以及鋼琴碩士雙學位。問：Tell us about your musical background.I remembered when I was about pre-school age, both of my two order sisters had piano lessons. At that time, I also wanted to take piano lessons, but my mom thought I was too young to take lessons. Therefore, I often sat in front of the piano and just pretended that I was playing music. Later, both my sisters stopped playing and my mother didn’t want me to take lessons until I was first grade... I started music by participating a group music instruction, which also involved 買屋other activities. That was one-year program. After that, my mother thought that enough for me, but I really wanted to have one-on-one piano lesson.... I started taking private piano lessons when I reached third grade... which was supported by my aunt. When I was turning sixth grade, my piano teacher suggested that I can apply for special music class in the middle school, which would require a secondary instrument for the entrance exam. I picked a traditional Chinese instrument called Gu Zheng. After I entered the music class in the middle school, I was assigned to play in a Chinese orchestra, but I did not like it because I really wanted to be able to play in the symphony orchestra like most of my classmates did. So, I picked harp, since there were only few harp players in the school. I had kept three instruments throughout middle to high school. When I auditioned for the college, I decided to have piano as my major and harp as my minor. After all, I like piano and harp better than the Chinese instrument, but I had never owned a harp (I got my first harp just one and a half year ago), so my harp practice time was very limited all these years. 問：Who were your teachers? My first harp teacher was 澎湖民宿Chi-An Lin（林芝安）. Then I studied with Shannon Chieh（解瑄） before I came to study in the US . And I have been studying with Ann Yeung at the University of Illinois . Besides that, I have had participated in many master classes with many other renowned harpists. Sometimes, they were very inspiring and stimulating to me. I am really thankful that I have had very dedicated teachers throughout my study. They are so passionate in teaching and helped me to develop full potential and confidence in harp my playing ( I was never confident in harp playing before until I attended the college). 問：How did your teacher influence you as a musician? I was influenced to become an artist rather than a harpist or pianist by both of my harp teacher, Dr.Yeung and piano teacher, Dr. Timothy Ehlen when I studied at Illinois . They have broaden my musical knowledge to be more creative, open-minded, listen to myself and also be myself when playing, not only the sound I produce, but more importantly, the musical ideas that I want to convey to the audience. 問：How did your friend, parents, etc. influence you as a musician?My parents are always supportive and respect to any of my decisions that's related to my study 賣屋and career. Although in the beginning, they didn’t want me to take music lessons, because both of my sisters quit playing after couple of years. I am also very blessed to have an opportunity to serve as a church pianist and become a Christian, which have provided me to share music with people and give praise to God through music. 問：Do you have a practicing method you follow everyday?I don't have a certain method that I follow everyday. I mostly studied technical etudes during the four years of undergraduate study. Now, I maintained a list of repertoire everyday. I also do a lot of mental practice... when I feel physically exhausted or when I am not practicing the harp. 問：How do you select repertoire for your recital?In the past couple years, I had enjoyed participating some international harp competitions, from which I gained experiences and found out my own weakness by listening other players. It also broadened my mind and helped me to improve. When I prepare a competition, I just selected those repertories from my recital. 問：What period music do you enjoy playing the most and why?Most harp solo music was composed after mid-late nineteenth century. However, as a pianist, I really enjoy 買房子playing Baroque music, particularly Bach music, which I enjoy playing the layers of beautiful voices. Sometimes, I don’t enjoy playing some contemporary music as much as other periods of music... which doesn’t mean that I don’t like all contemporary music. I still enjoy playing some contemporary pieces that have stronger rhythmic structure. 問：In your opinion, what is your strength in your playing?I believe my playing is neutral, which it can also be related to my personality. I am not an emotional or dramatic type of person, so in my playing, sometimes it may sound too mild and might be lack of contrasts or need more dramatic moments. I feel this can be my strength in one way, but could also be my weakness. 問：What do you hope to accomplish as a musician?As a musician, I hope I can always have a stage for me to perform as a soloist, chamber group, or in a large ensemble and share music with people. I am also enthusiastic and interested in teaching, and wish I can influence my students not only to be a good musician, but also to find a meaningful purpose in their life. 問：What do you do for hobby, if any?Besides music, I think my daily life is very simple. I an involved in many church related 房屋出租activities. I think relationships between families; friends or people that you are with is very precious. I wish to be more caring person, especially to those who are in need. 問：What was the music that changed your life?In brief, music leads me to know God, to help me find a real purpose that God planed for me. 問：Can you share some of your experience in your life on how music has lead to God?My first piano teacher was a Christian who took me to a church to play piano every Sunday service since I was fifth grade. Because of that, I also attended Sunday school every other week. Thus, I came to know God and who Jesus is. Since then, I had been the pianist in that church until I left my home town for the college. None of my family member was a Christian; I was the first because of music. I also feel that the music has to be connected to something greater than myself, like the Universe, and my Universe is God who created everything. 問：What was the event that changed your life?I remember in the summer after the college graduation... I participated in my first and biggest harp competition (5th USA International Harp Competition). Actually, I only had a very short time to prepare for the competition 售屋網because I had my senior piano recital in the same month. In the beginning, I didn’t really want to participate in the competition; one reason was that I had never traveled abroad by myself, so I felt intimidated. However, I was strongly encouraged by my harp teacher Ms. Chieh, and she worked very hard with me, and even helped me get an affordable plane ticket. So, finally I came to the States for the competition. Because of the competition, I also met Dr. Ann Yeung, who later offered me the assistantship to study at the University of Illinois . My life would have been totally different if I didn’t participate this competition. I had never thought of being able to study abroad after the college due to my family financial situation. After I earned my bachelor degree, I had decided to be a general music teacher in a middle school. Sometimes, life doesn’t go as you planed, does it? 問：Tell me more about your undergraduate experience? In your opinion, do you find there is difference in the harp training in US vs. Taiwan ?In Taiwan , two instruments (one major and one minor) were required for the entrance exam to the music departments of any universities. Of course, the major instruments are much more 新成屋focused by most students during their undergraduate studies... while minor instrument is only required for two or three years of half-hour weekly lessons. As for the harp training, I do not think there is much difference in US vs. Taiwan . If there is, I would say probably most large-scale music schools in the US offer more related course in addition to weekly one hour lesson, such as harp pedagogy or literature. Beside that, I think it mainly depends on the harp instructor. Although I was piano major during my undergraduate study, there was no harp major student at the time, therefore, I had chance to play in the orchestra and other ensembles whenever the harp was needed. Ms. Chieh was also very dedicated and passionate in teaching that she would always teach and demand her students as a harp major student, even if the harp may be his/her minor instrument. 問：As a doctoral candidate in harp performance and literature, what is your focus on your thesis?My thesis title is “Introduction and Variations on Bellini’s “Norma”, Op. 36 for harp with orchestral accompaniment ad libitum by Elias Parish Alvars, which I plan to arrange and write historical analysis. 問：Will you be giving a lecture recital 土地買賣too? If so, in what? I will be giving a project recital in both the solo and orchestral accompaniment versions of this piece. 問：In your opinion, what are the characteristics of a good performer?I think a good performer music is being connected with the audience. If his/her playing or performance inspires the listener, touch someone’s heart, or even change someone’s life, that very successful and meaningful. 問：What are some of your upcoming musical project?I am currently working on my thesis, which includes a project paper along with a project recital... and I plan to finish that by early next year. My advisor and I also proposed a presentation and performance for the Elias Parish Alvars Festival held in his birthplace in Teignmouth , England in late February. 問：I see that you hold 2 master degrees. Can you tell us more about each degrees you earned?Because I was offered the harp teaching assistantship, I was able to come to U of I to study and pursuit my harp master degree. However, since I was a piano major during my undergraduate study, I did not want to stop taking piano lessons when I came to US, so I took piano lessons with Prof. Ehlen and also attended piano studio classes regularly. 仲介網Right when I started harp DMA program, I had a chance talking to my piano professor that I was also interested in teaching piano in the future if possible and had been thinking of getting a second master degree in piano pedagogy. After I asked for his advice, he answered, why not a master degree in piano performance? So, I started preparing for the repertoire and passed the audition. I was pursuing both DMA (harp) and MM (piano) at the same time during my first and second year of DMA. Although I have to admit that it is really hard to keep both instruments and spend a lot of time practicing... a good time management and practice strategy is very important. 問：Do you think the idea of competing in a digital environment an alternative solution to some performers who may have problem with their visa or financial status for traveling to abroad? I like this idea a lot, especially for me. While I searched on the internet to see if there are any competitions or auditions opened for any instruments or for debut recital, most of them are held in New York City . They usually don’t provide harps, so the best way is to carry your own harp or rent one. It is, sometimes, costly to carry your own harp for traveling 室內裝潢to a far distance.
- Aug 17 Fri 2012 22:12
[ 殺很大 ]
[ 殺很大 ] “殺很大”~~~~最近這個詞颳起了一陣“殺很大”炫風不管什麼事情都可以扯上這三個字但是又有多少人了解這句澎湖民宿話真正的意涵呢？今天由小弟為大家解釋一下“殺很大”的意義 一、表疑問的句子有時當我們不想回答對方說的某些話時“殺新成屋很大”當疑問句用時說話者會伴隨著裝傻疑惑的表情一副聽不清楚或聽不懂對方說的話的樣子“啥很大？” 二、表驚慌的句子賣房子夏天到了當我們在海邊戲水看到海面出現魚翅時“殺很大”會伴隨著驚恐表情與高分貝的音量脫口而出你極可能會被自己的音租房子量嚇到但是你無須惶恐此為正常現象！“鯊很大！” 三、表吆暍的句子菜市場裡某間服飾店的老闆吆暍著如果你單純的認為“居酒屋殺很大”是可以殺價殺很多的意思那表示你的智慧還有待開發....“殺很大”是老闆最佳的台詞來這間服飾店裡的顧客都是衝關鍵字廣告著“殺很大”來的“衫很大”﹝註：「衫」，衣服的台語﹞聽完以上精闢的解說我想大家都有了初步的了解希望對大家在日常借貸“殺很大”用語的使用上有所幫助但各位可別把各個意思搞混或錯用了喔用錯可是會很傷腦筋的.... 今天說圖解字上到這下課買屋~~~﹝以上內容，純屬胡扯，如有雷同，那就雷同﹞關鍵字廣告***************************************************************************************** 看完這篇文章真的覺得 土地買賣[殺很大].... 這次的用法~~請自行加上讚嘆的口吻...用以形容作者很屌的意思!
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